≡ Thema: In need of info

In need of info
27.11.2015 von theron

Okay, so i was recently talking with some close friends and the topic of my emotional range was brought up. Many of them agreed that have almost no emotional range or empathy. Like at all. So after a lot of talking and them pushing i started looking around at what i could find on the subject. A few shorts hours of research lead me here.

My question is that how can i actually know? I don't feel like im lacking emotion. But some things were brought up that i can understand why people would think that way. I don't really talk about my feelings cause i never have anything to say on the subject. People ask me daily how im feeling or how im doing and i never have a answer past "fine".

I took the test and answered as truthfully as i could, but like i said, I don't feel as if i have this issue. I'm just getting a little tired of constantly being asked how i feel.

In need of info
29.11.2015 von Rmagic

Hi Theron,

Just because others point out your difference compared to the mass majority does not mean there is something wrong with you, or that you are the one lacking anything. Let's face it, the mass majority leaves a lot to be desired.

The only question for yourself is are you ok with the extent of your interaction with others? Do you have the relationships you feel you need? If yes, than there is nothing for you to do. Maybe these buddies of yours are just pointing out how they see you, but they except and are ok with it. Just like maybe one of your other friends is highly emotional and cry's or yells at the drop of a hat.

If you need / want things to change in your life, then that is a different story.

Take Care